Philosophy workshop: what does it mean to be in love?
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Philosophy workshop: what does it mean to be in love?

15
January
20 25
PHILOSOPHY ALL AUDIENCES FR
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We would like to invite you to a philosophy workshop presented by Alicia Gaudel, who leads philosophy workshops for adults and children.

Philosophy workshop: what does it mean to be in love?

Introduction

What is a philosophy workshop?

It is a discussion between children, but not just any discussion.
Drawing on a story, a cartoon or a work of art, the children have a free discussion among themselves about a philosophical issue. There is a lot to say about this issue, and that’s why children enjoy philosophising so much.

Say what you think and think what you say

During a philosophy workshop, there is never any attempt to impose a single way of thinking on children. Quite the contrary: with the help of an experienced workshop leader, budding young philosophers learn to reflect, to listen to others and to express their own ideas. Philosophy workshops are an exercise in listening, and offer children the opportunity to better understand themselves while developing tolerance for other people and their differences.

"There’s no such thing as love, only proof of love".  Jean Cocteau

Philosophy workshop: what does it mean to be in love?

Love: the whole world is talking about it, but what is it, really? We could begin by saying that love is something strong, something that can make us feel happy, sad, or even a bit lost. We can also say that there are several kinds of love: the love we feel for our family, our friends or even for a pet. But there’s also the love we have for skiing, chocolate or reading! So to avoid any confusion, in this workshop we are asking a more specific question: what does it mean to be in love? It is a feeling which sometimes seems obvious, and at other times so mysterious. We recognise it when it is there, but it is so difficult to explain.

When we are in love, we can feel attracted to a person, as if they are exercising an invisible force, a little like a magnet. Where does this feeling come from? Does it happen to everyone? Can we explain why one person attracts us and not another? Are the explanations that we find solid, and do they work for everyone?

Romantic relationships can also be associated with desire. A particular need to get closer to the other person, to be with them in a unique way. But what is desire, ultimately? Is it always part of love? Can it disappear or change over time? Is it possible to love someone without desiring them?

Finally, to love sometimes means to want the best for the other person, to want this to the extent that we will put our own wishes to one side. Does loving mean forgetting ourselves a little? Are there any limits to this? Can we be in love while still asserting our own needs? What do you think is important to understand when it comes to “wanting the best for another person”?

In this workshop, we will discuss the questions raised by love between two people. We will seek to understand what makes up a romantic relationship: attraction, desire and this mysterious balance between ourselves and the other person. It will be an opportunity to explore and reflect on these feelings which are a part of life.

The workshop for children will be held on 15 January, while older participants will meet on Thursday 16 January at 7 pm at the Princess Grace Theatre, for our session on Love, desire and sexuality, presented by Robert Maggiori, who will be accompanied by Fabienne Brugère, Emma Becker and Samuel Dock.

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Opening hours : 13h45
Date : Wednesday 15 January 2025
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Discord – Dialogue, divide and conflict

Discord – Dialogue, divide and conflict

13
Mar
20 25
Even in its sounds, there is something light, childlike and comical about the word zizanie (meaning "discord") – not something that you would expect when considering the severity of the conflicts that are currently shaking our world, the crises, the violent confrontations, the deadly clan rivalries, the acts of barbarism, the terrorist attacks, the razing of cities, the bombings and trench warfare... Bisbille (quarrel), brouille (feud), querelle (dispute) – these are the words that more immediately spring to mind. Cereal farmers do not see it that way, since the name also applies to a plant – a type of grass from the genus lolium, "intoxicating" (Lolium temulentum) and invasive, like ryegrass – which can infest wheat fields and has been known to ruin harvests. It is essentially a devil, seeking to deprive good people of their bread. Farmers sow good seed in their fields, but during the night a devil, the farmer’s enemy, plants some zizanie. The seeds mature, but so does the weed: how do you uproot one without disturbing the other? There is no choice but to let them grow together: only at harvest time will it be possible to pull out the zizanie, bind it into sheaves, burn it and fill the granary with good wheat. It is this parable from the Gospel (Matthew 13, 24–30) that will make zizanie famous, so to speak, by making it the symbol of evil, so intertwined with good that it rends the latter difficult to understand and practice.Today, it is not in the wheat fields that zizanie is being sown, but – in the form of points of contention, axes to grind, tensions, conflicts, hateful rhetoric and more – within the fabric of society and in the minds of very many people. Consequently, it is not a question of analysing the causes and consequences of the armed conflicts that are bringing bloodshed to the world, and to Europe in particular, but rather of reflecting on this particular leprosy that has poisoned interpersonal relationships, made societies that were said to be "liquid" harder, more nervous, angrier, ready to explode, that has transformed social dialogue into non-stop noise, a cacophony where only the sharpest sounds can be heard, the clamour, the most radical and simplistic slogans, the most hateful appeals, the most absurd arguments, the strongest curses, expressions of the most implausible beliefs and opinions... Of course, we cannot name the "enemy" – of democratic societies – which has sown the roots of this weed, the fault lines of havoc, in the soil of society. And it would probably be too obvious to mention the role of social media, which appear to have undergone a terrifying (yet very profitable for the owners) involution: originally intended to promote free communication and "horizontal" dialogue in all directions, they have become steel ball factories, simply vertically assembling spheres in which all those who, depending on the type of bubble, share the same opinion, take comfort in their shared beliefs, however crazy they may be, without ever confronting the monads superimposed in a parallel column, and thus killing any opportunity for confrontation or the refining of conflicting ideas, which is the basis of all authentic dialogue. But the sowing of zizanie, or discord, must undoubtedly be sought upstream, in the dissemination of the idea that truth could be a simple "option" – like tinted windows in a car or a HEPA filter for a vacuum cleaner – that the "more or less true", the plausible, the "not entirely false" or the outright false have as much value and greater effectiveness. The wheat in the fields began to rot with the advent of the post-truth era, which opened up the floodgates of disinformation, fakes and conspiracy theories, and killed social dialogue itself. What is a dialogue, in fact, if not an attempt to push thought, by successive repetitions, to get as close as possible to reality, and thus to approach a truth through (dia) the reasoned, reasonable, rational confrontation of ideas or theories – and establish an agreement, a concord? Or, if truth is "optional", if sophistry is as good as truth, if error, fudge and blunder are the same thing, if false news is more effective and "impactful" than the actual news, then everything can be reduced to an "opinion", every science will be an opinion, every statistic a "set-up", every piece of reasoning a trick, every agreement a calculation, every consensus a trap. In short, it will not be possible to delegitimize anything, no propaganda, no pressure, no method of "influence", no sleight of hand, no mystification, no nonsense, no trickery - abuse of weakness, punches and baseball bats - no prevarication, no violence, no harassment. To the extent that no one knows "what to think" anymore, when no one dares to "intervene in the conversation", fearing the heaps of insults that will come their way no matter what is said, when they withdraw, silent, in a kind of disarray – the sickness that appears when we no longer know how to "be in society".Robert Maggiori © Monaco Philosophical Encounters.
Proposed by : Rencontres Philosophiques de Monaco
Location : Théâtre Princesse Grace
PHILOSOPHY
All Audiences
FR
Reduced mobility access
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L’Identité

L’Identité

03
Apr
20 25
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Proposed by : Rencontres Philosophiques de Monaco
Location : Théâtre Princesse Grace
PHILOSOPHY
All Audiences
FR
Reduced mobility access